If there is more than one child in the family, then childish jealousy cannot be avoided. Naturally, siblings will enjoy playing and communicating with each other, but parents will have to face a problem unknown to those who have only one baby.
Some moms and dads believe that sibling rivalry is a normal situation. However, it is easier to prevent a child's jealousy and make sure that the children make friends and find common ground. There are several tips that will make siblings forget about quarrels.
1. Strong friendship. The eldest child should be informed about the expectation of a new addition to the family immediately, so that the arrival of the mother and baby does not come as a surprise to him. You need to show a rounded belly, let the baby touch it, talk to him. It would not be superfluous to tell about how the eldest child was born, how he used to need care and affection. This will help an adult son or daughter prepare for the arrival of a new family member.
2. The older child should feel needed. He can help with the baby's care, unwrap his toys, and give him a pacifier. The main thing is not to forget to thank him for it!
3. The allocation of time between the eldest and youngest child plays an important role. With all your desire, you will not be able to pay the same amount of attention to two children. However, it is quite possible to play with the elder while walking, while the baby is sweetly snoring in the stroller, reading books while feeding the baby. If desired, you can find a way out of any situation.
4. The eldest child should find the good in the new baby. He should not blindly love his brother or sister, because with his appearance he lost the boundless parental love, he had to give a piece of mom and dad's attention. But sometimes you can spend the day exclusively with your older child, go to the park, cafe and cinema with him. This will help him to feel his exclusivity and importance.
5. Good morning will ensure a good day! After waking up, you can spend as much time as possible with your eldest, hug and kiss him, and just lie in bed. Then he will feel the attention of mom and dad throughout the day, and also not get hung up on the fact that everyone will be busy with a small family member.
6. Mutual assistance is necessary. Parents should create situations where children have to help each other. Even a three-year-old can take care of the baby for a while, while mom is away for a minute. He will take the baby by the hand and watch him smile. Both will definitely experience a surge of love and tenderness. Well, how nice it is to feel like the boss, and to teach something to a little clumsy!
7. Quarrels must be stopped! When the younger one grows up a bit and starts moving around without help, he tries to conquer the territory. Children take toys away from each other, argue and quarrel. We must not allow fights and insults, and also immediately blame the elder! We need to listen to both of them and only then draw conclusions. If the children do not want to give in to each other, it is better to take the toy away from two and send it to different rooms.
8. I love you the most! If children ask whom mom and dad love more, then they should say that everyone is the same or in their own way. You can not compare sisters and brothers, because each of them is unique! You need to love your children unconditionally, then these questions will completely disappear.
It is important to ensure that siblings remain close throughout their lives. Friends and girlfriends disappear over time, but sisters and brothers stay forever! https://playas.com.mx/desarrollo-del-juego-y-las-apuestas-online-una-evolucion-digital/